Breast Cancer Survivor Launches Support Group After Life-Saving Discovery

Rachel Mullen, a breast cancer survivor, credits her husband’s snoring with potentially saving her life. The mother of three discovered a lump while trying to nudge her husband awake, leading to a diagnosis that has since driven her to advocate for better local cancer support resources in Trim, Co. Meath.

In January 2024, Mullen identified a lump during a moment of frustration with her husband, Paul. She promptly visited her general practitioner, who referred her to the BreastCheck Clinic. Following tests, she received the shocking news that the lump was cancerous. “Whatever way I moved, I found a lump so I went to the GP who sent me to the BreastCheck Clinic where, after tests, I was told it looked like cancer,” she recounted.

The emotional weight of the diagnosis hit her hard. Mullen described feeling inconsolable as she processed the news. “I don’t remember the walk from the Mater Hospital because I couldn’t believe I had missed all the red flags,” she said, emphasizing her concern for her children. The diagnosis revealed a two-inch tumour and confirmed that she had triple-negative breast cancer, necessitating a bone density scan to determine if the cancer had metastasized.

Mullen underwent chemotherapy treatment, but an adverse reaction resulted in a three-week hospital stay and a change in medication. Despite holding on to her hair for eleven weeks, it eventually began to fall out, prompting her to purchase a wig for €1,900. She received a €500 PRSI grant and her health insurance covered €900, but she still faced a personal expense of €500. “If you have no insurance, you are really left behind in this country,” she noted.

The diagnosis also revealed that Mullen carries the Brca2 gene, increasing her risk for ovarian and breast cancer. Despite this, she opted against undergoing preventative surgeries or radiotherapy after completing her chemotherapy and immunotherapy treatments. Instead, she is now on a regular surveillance program, which includes annual mammograms and MRIs.

Mullen’s journey has illuminated a critical gap in local support systems for cancer patients. “When you’re on treatment, the last thing you want is to travel to Dublin for counselling or group meetings due to exhaustion,” she stated. Recognizing the isolation that often accompanies cancer treatment, Mullen has taken significant steps to establish a support network in her community.

On August 19, Mullen plans to host a meet-up for cancer patients and survivors in a local community room. She aims to create a space where individuals can share their experiences and provide mutual support. “There is no after-care to cancer; you are left to swim yourself, and mental health can suffer,” she explained, stressing the importance of community connections during recovery.

Mullen’s children—Seán (17), Ellie (13), and Jamie (8)—have been her source of strength throughout this ordeal. Reflecting on a poignant moment with her son Jamie, she recalled how he encouraged her to “put on her big girl pants” during her struggles. “I needed to get up and show him and my other children that I am strong,” she said.

As she continues her battle, Mullen remains committed to raising awareness about the need for earlier cancer detection and more accessible resources. “I’ve noticed younger women and men are being diagnosed every day with different types of cancers,” she noted, advocating for improved screening and prevention efforts.

For anyone interested in supporting Mullen’s initiative or seeking additional information, she can be reached at [email protected]. Mullen’s journey serves as a reminder of the importance of community support and the vital need for accessible resources in the fight against cancer.