Luncheon Offers Music and Community for Dementia Caregivers

A special luncheon aimed at providing a musical respite for those living with dementia and their caregivers will take place on August 27, 2023, at the Park City Library. The event, organized by Jewish Family Service in partnership with the Mountainland Association of Governments Aging and Family Services, is designed to foster community connections and enjoyment through music. The gathering is set to begin at 1 p.m. and is offered free of charge.

Rosemary Quatrale, the older adult care manager at Jewish Family Service, emphasized the organization’s commitment to accessibility. “We never charge for anything, because we feel the need to offer things that are accessible to everyone,” Quatrale stated. The event welcomes anyone affected by dementia, including caregivers, and aims to create a relaxed atmosphere where participants can enjoy themselves without the burden of diagnosis or caregiving roles.

While attendance is free, Quatrale encourages attendees to RSVP via email to help with preparations. “When we did something like this before, we had more people show up than expected,” she noted. This proactive approach is intended to ensure a comfortable environment for all participants.

Creating a Welcoming Space for Connection

The goal of the luncheon extends beyond mere entertainment. Quatrale explained the often-overwhelming nature of a dementia diagnosis, describing it as “devastating” for individuals and their families. “People don’t know where to turn for advice, help, education, activities — really anything. So, it’s important to provide community events, especially at no cost, where people who have dementia can go and feel normal,” she added.

Quatrale highlighted the importance of creating opportunities for social interaction. “At these events, those with dementia can interact with others, and their caregivers can join them in an activity where they aren’t caregivers, but as companions doing something fun together,” she explained. This shift allows caregivers to step away from their responsibilities, fostering a sense of community and shared experiences.

Attendees will be treated to a nutritious lunch provided by the Mountainland Association of Governments, which oversees the Meals on Wheels program. Following the meal, participants will engage in a sing-a-long that promises to be both enjoyable and uplifting. Quatrale noted the significant impact of music on individuals with dementia, stating, “When you hear music, you move to music, you sing music… Music is a way that helps people snap back to who they used to be.”

Music’s Healing Power

Research has consistently shown that music can evoke memories and emotional responses even in individuals with cognitive decline. Quatrale recounted her experiences with participants who, despite memory challenges, can sing along to their favorite songs. “One gentleman I know who had lost the ability to talk would not only sing but perform in our Gleeful! Choir. When he did that, he looked like he was 100% fine,” she shared.

The sing-a-long will feature familiar songs, including Neil Diamond’s “Sweet Caroline” and tracks by John Denver. Lyric sheets and accompanying videos will be provided to encourage participation from everyone, regardless of their familiarity with the songs. Quatrale expressed her excitement for the event, noting that past gatherings often see attendees who initially claim they won’t sing end up joining in with enthusiasm.

Quatrale expressed gratitude for the collaboration with the Mountainland Association of Governments and the Park City Library, acknowledging the essential role of community partnerships. “This really is a three-partner effort, and we wouldn’t be able to do this without our community partners,” she remarked.

The upcoming luncheon exemplifies how community-driven initiatives can create meaningful experiences for those affected by dementia, promoting joy and connection through the universal language of music.